| Advocate: | Julianna Hamor |
Newport & Bristol County In an emergeny, call the police: 911 |
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Resources: |
24-Hour Victims of Crime Helpline: 1-800-484-8100 |
| What is Domestic Violence : | Domestic Violence is a pattern of violent or dominant behaviors used by a partner to gain control of a relationship, and it goes far beyond physical injury. It is against the law for your spouse, intimate partner, ex-partner, or a family member to:
Domestic violence is something uncomfortable to talk about, and it is a hard pattern to escape, but it also something that can be stopped. Domestic Violence is in our neighborhood. It is in our community. It can happen to anyone, but it does not have to happen to you. When a law enforcement officer responds to a domestic violence situation and has probable cause to believe that a crime has been committed, the officer shall arrest and take into custody the alleged perpetrator of the crime. The alleged perpetrator will be brought before a bail commissioner or another officer of the court. A No-Contact Order (NCO) will be issued. The NCO means that the defendant may not contact you in person, by telephone, or by mail. On the next business day, the defendant will be arraigned before a judge. The judge will schedule a second hearing (pretrial conference), usually within a few weeks, at which the defendant may change his/her plea to guilty, not guilty, or no contest (nolo contendre). A temporary restraining order (TRO) is also available to victims of domestic violence at the Family or District Court (located at the Garrahy Complex in Providence) whether or not there has been an arrest. A person may apply for a TRO if he/she has been a victim of physical violence or is in fear for their physical safety. If a TRO is approved, the perpetrator is served with the TRO and is not allowed to have any contact with the victim. A violation is an arrestable offence. Some people choose to have both a NCO and a TRO because a TRO can offer added protection by giving temporary custody of children to the victim; by ordering the perpetrator to pay temporary child support; and/or by ordering the perpetrator to vacate the home, if shared with the victim. SEXUAL ASSAULT Sexual assault is any kind of sexual contact without consent. (This includes forcing someone to watch pornography or sexual acts.) Consent is “yes” without force or power. Force or power includes emotional coercion, (bribes, pressuring, lying, tricks) implicit coercion, (social position, size/strength, age) verbal threats, physical force without a weapon or physical force with a weapon. Exceptions to consent include age (the age of consent in Rhode Island is 16.) and being mentally incapacitated due to drugs or alcohol. In addition, a person who is incapable of understanding the nature of a sexual act due to a mental impairment cannot give consent. Sexual violence happens to all people. 1 in 3 women and 1 in 6 men are sexually assaulted in their lifetime. Most perpetrators are known and trusted. 85% of perpetrators are acquaintances such as a parent, relative or friend and that can make the sexual abuse even more confusing. There is no “right” response to sexual violence. Sexual assault is a life-threatening situation and whatever you did to survive was the right thing to do. Remember, submitting to sexual violence is not the same thing as “consenting.” Sexual violence is never the victim’s fault and no one deserves to be sexually assaulted. If you have been sexually assaulted, consider the following: Medical Help The Police A trained sexual assault crisis advocate can accompany you to the hospital and/or police station if you wish. The advocate is there to offer you support and answer your questions. Services are available regardless of whether or not you decide to report the assault to the police. An advocate is available through the 24-hour Victims of Crime Helpline at 1.800.494.8100. |
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